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The Positive Challenge!

ChokinOnLemonz's picture

Post something POSITIVE about your skids, BM, DH. I know this is a venting forum so we often come here to talk about what's going wrong. Let's try to find something, ANYTHING, good to share.

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ChokinOnLemonz's picture

SS12 really works hard to get good grades
SS12 is active in sports
SS12 is being a better "brother" to BS9

SD11 is super sweet
SD11 does well in school
SD is kind to people and animals

BM doesn't do drugs
BM encourages the kids to excel in school
BM shows up for her visitations

DH is kind
DH is an involved parent
DH works hard and provides
DH is my best friend

deprestepmom_30's picture

"My house, my rules. You don't like it, you don't have to live here"

A M E N !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My husband and I have custody of all of our children from other evil souls, and My SS-13 has threatened to move in with his welfare mother piece of crap, poor excuse of a parent, oh please don't threaten me with less stress!!!!!

So here's what I have to say just like you "My house, my rules. You don't like it, you don't have to live here"......and don't come back!!

Now that would be something positive...

WTF...REALLY's picture

SD - She is not my kid.

BM - she is lucky to hubby as her ex

DH - love him!!! He is kind, sweet, smart, funny, great in bed, hot as hell and very adventurous

carriedear's picture

SD 6 is a sweet child who is surprised and delighted by any small thing I do for her. She always says thank you and I will do anything to make her laugh.

SS 8 is working very hard to control his anger. He will actually send himself to his room to cool off. He is a good artist.

SD 11 is intelligent, she spends a lot of time thinking.

BM loves her kids.

DH is a good father, a good provider, A good husband and possibly the most patient person on Earth.

robin333's picture

They don't live here and the youngest graduates in June so no more CS (aka BM'S primary income).

ChokinOnLemonz's picture

Your SS not having mantrums is a huge success! That kid was a terror the last time I was on here much. At least you have that positive!

Your BMs incarceration is a super positive too, as is SIL being restricted from kids!

WTF...REALLY's picture

Yeah....something worse can happen.

The inlaws, including SIL will move next door to you. Lol...nooooooooo

IamexhaustedSM's picture

They are all out and not under our roof any more. I do not have any contact with them so I guess the most positive thing about them is I do not hear about them talking trash about me any more or trying to call out my DD when they get into trouble.

BarkAtTheMoon's picture

SD19 decided to live on campus and not commute.

SD13 opened a new bar of Ivory soap after three weeks "using" the first one

DH cooks dinner now or gets carry-out

~ Moon Blum 3

CBCharlotte's picture

SD15 and SDstb12 are very thankful. They always say thank you when I make dinner, buy them something, take them somwehere, etc.

WITHOUT prompting!

ChiefGrownup's picture

ss13 is lovable and beloved wherever he goes and always cheerful and a good learner and quite compassionate and concerned about others.

DH is fully responsible for his own kids, appreciates me tons, is as honest as the day is long, is super romantic Rico Suave, makes me laugh, takes care of me like I never expected in my life.

BM is not on drugs, doesn't abuse alcohol, has had the same job for 3 or more years, is cordial to me.

SD15.....has big blue eyes........is very smart..........can be funny............ok, this is hard,.....................too hard....done.

Monchichi's picture

Chockin I am not in a positive frame of mind this morning so I am going to try very hard:

SS says please and thank you more often

BM has not sent any crazy emails or threats for 3 weeks

SO is my best friend and smells great this morning
SO made me coffee

Living the dream's picture

Skids: They're all smart. They're not mine. The youngest is already 14.

BM: She's my husband's mistake, not mine.

DH: He has a really nice ass. That's all I've got this morning. Maybe I'll edit this post later when I'm in a better mood toward him!