I'm sure BM is seething
For context, our CO gives DH Labor Day weekend every year, but it also has a stipulation that if SS has a football game at any point over Labor Day weekend, we forfeit our visit and BM keeps SS for that weekend. The game has to be indicated on the official team schedule or it's a no go.
A few weeks ago, BM and DH emailed back and forth, confirming that SS would be visiting for Labor Day Weekend since there was no football game. BM demanded that DH adjust pick-up to 4:00 p.m. to accommodate the second half of football practice on that Friday. Last year, DH did this and practice ended up getting last minute due to projected low attendance, resulting in DH losing an hour with SS because of the 4-hour travel time. DH explained to BM that he would allow SS to finish practice, but DH would still be arriving to BMLand at 3:00 p.m., in the event practice was canceled or ended early. He reiterated the events of last year that resulted in an hour of lost parenting time. BM passive aggressively went off on DH, including team chat screenshots, trying to say that last year's practice was actually canceled due to weather, that DH was wrong, and that DH had to stop being difficult and stop interfering with SS' sport commitments. DH didn't respond.
This morning, DH received an email from SS' coach, canceling practice for Friday, again due to projected low attendance. DH immediately emailed BM stating "I saw coach's email, canceling practice on Friday due to projected low attendance. I will be picking SS up from your house at 3:00 p.m. as per the CO." I'm sure BM is seething, since BM can never ever be wrong and BM thinks DH is such an idiot. The coach is offering an optional practice on Saturday, but our CO only states that accomodations will be made for games, not practices, so even if BM fires back, trying to cancel the weekend, she won't have a leg to stand on.
It's about time BM eats her words, even though we know she will never admit she's wrong. T-minus 5 days until SS arrives. I am hoping this visit goes smooth. Luckily it is short (3 days) and he won't return again until Christmas.
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I was hoping that SS would be
I was hoping that SS would be unavailable this Labor Day weekend, but I am laughing an evil laugh about BMonster. I hope all goes well!
Luckily, we are super busy
Luckily, we are super busy next weekend with family visiting and home improvement projects, so my interaction with SS13 will be minimal. For 3 days, I can easily make that work.
It's Such A Good Feeling....
when these toxic BMs and/or adult SKs get their due rewards. Here's to a peaceful three days for you, Castle...while the BM and GF fume. LOL
Saturday practice
If the coach can't get enough kids for a Friday practice, the odds of getting enough on Saturday are infinitesimally small. I'd expect an email cancelling the optional Saturday will soon be coming.
We aren't even entertaining a
We aren't even entertaining a request for SS to attend the Saturday practice if BM asks. We are under no obligation to accommodate those.
Gotta love a CO with a well documented visitation schedule.
SpermGrandHag was big on foregoing/refusing a visitation then trying to wrap the duration of the refused visitation into another visitation usually summer. The Judge was not an idiot, at least on this part, and stated clearly in the CO that any refused/missed visitation was forfeit and could not be added to earlier or later visitations without direct approval by the other side. The Judge also included the clear statement that no visitation could cause the kid to miss school. Since we were the CP side, having the kid was normal for us so them refusing a visitation was a non event. Except for the initiating of the pouting, "your mean", "its not fair", then trying to PAS SS about it. There were three periods of a year or more that they refused all visitation. When that happened we started offering to pay for their half of visitation airfare. As much as we detest the SpermClan, we did not want to allow them to punish the kid because of their crying poor mouth bullshit. The Spermidiot bred his parents into financial crisis because SpermGrandHag's control freak bullshit kept her paying for her idiot breeder serial statutory rapist son to breed, his rent, buy him cars, and pay his CS on 4 kids to three different baby mamas. Ours is the only Spermidiot kid actually raised by a parent. Baby mama #2 and #3 took CS from the Hag on the agreement that the kids live with her and she raised them.
It is no wonder that my kid's three younger half sibs include a dole queen, a prison inmate, and the youngest who is not far behind the convict.
Ya gotta love it when the CO, the visitation schedule, and the stars align to cause a manipulative blended family opposition parent to stroke out.
What an exhausting b-word of
What an exhausting b-word of a BM to have to deal with.