I am a 32 year old remarried woman. I have 3 children of my own who live in Michigan and now two step children in Canada. For my own children I get them once a month alternate holidays and half summer, mainly because I had to leave an abusive marriage of 13 years and had some choices to make, as far as making the transition as easy as possible for my kids. My 2 stepkids are as much to me as my own, and their BM is needless to say a pain in my backside. I am not here to bash their BM but to maintain some sanity as an SM