So we got SS3 for the weekend. We were pretty excited. It's been a month. When we got him it was worse than usual. He had on NO underwear..... and shoes that were TWO sizes too small AND had busted up laces that didn't even come past the second holes in his shoes. IT was AWFUL!!! I took pictures of his shoes. I am so sick of them doing this. Poor little kid. Every time we get him his clothes have this horrible stinch of being left to mold in the washer for days..... it takes me forever to get the smell out and if I don't wash his blanket it will stink up our ENTIRE house. What is the deal with this crap? Is this chick so lazy that she can't get the laundry to the dryer before it molds and stinks?? AND UM WHY IS HE dressed like he lives in a box under the bridge? EVERY Time we have got him there has been something wrong. Dirty clothes, clothes on backwards... and I'm talking about JEANS.. on BACKWARDS?! Shoes are ALWAYS on the wrong feet and he is always filthy. We have to scoot home to bathe him and change him JUST so we can take him someplace...

The topper of our weekend..... Hold on girls this is a doozy....

We took him to a HUGE park where there was a lot of toys etc. He had gone to the bathroom at home etc so we figured we are safe... well he was running around holding hit butt so I told DH hey he needs to poop go get him. So he went over and SS3 said NO daddy I don't have to go. So DH said ok. WELL...... in a matter of seconds a bunch of kids were yelling... asking him who his parents were etc. HE had gone behind us in the little part of the play ground and just dropped his pants and took a poop. :jawdrop: RIGHT THERE in front of everybody. I was mortified. And sadly he won't let me coddle him or anything so DH ran to the car while all the parents were looking at me... asking me if we go camping alot. I was standing in front of the mess so the kids wouldn't step in it and SS3 was inside the little play house pants down around his ankles. He refused to pull them up for me. It was AWFUL. I called for DH to tell him to pull up his pants. I must have looked like a terrible mom :O Sadly our little SS3 isn't very loving little man. He rarely gives ANY kisses nor hugs at all. He won't let us do anything that shows affection in that way. DH finally came back with some things to clean it up and we went home. Since we get next to no time with him we weren't sure how to handle the situation. We didn't want to scare him so DH told him that from now on he has to use the potty or no more parks or pools or any thing. And then there were no cartoons for an hour. It is a hard situation when you only get maybe two days in within a 6 week period. And because we have heard so many bad things about BM new husband we didn't tell her about it. Just don't want our little guy to get into trouble.

But wow....... what a weekend. I did go shopping for him this weekend. I am mailing out the clothes tonight. She put him in pre school. Will they send him to pre school like how they give him to us? Just INSANE!?