So, SD5 has been sick for at least 4 weeks. They all had a cold the last time they came visit 2 weeks ago, but they were on the mend. Well, SD5 has had a cough since then. FDH hubby took the kids to his parents this weekend (I worked all weekend). I told him on Friday, before he picked up the skids that he needed to take SD5 to the doctor. Lord knows BM won't do it.
On Saturday, FDH finds out that SD5 is coughing, can't stop, then vomits at least once per night. This has been going on for a WEEK! I tell him AGAIN, to take her to a doctor!
Sunday night rolls around, he is dropping them off (BM can't get home til 8:30, of course) and FDH calls me to tell me he is NOW going to take SD5 to the doctor. She fell asleep in the call, woke up coughing and vomited all over herself. Apparently, he called BM and she said "well, she's with you, can't you just take her?" WTF!!!!
I have always thought FDH was trying to be a good parent and dad to these kids and how in the hell did NEITHER of them take SD5 to the doctor??????

Apparently, BM took her yesterday and got her on 4 days on antibiotics (which I think sounds weird - 4 days?) but whatever! If she had come here, instead of his parent's house, she'd have gone, or I'd be a raving bitch.

This whole thing is makes me REALLY angry and I don't know how to deal with FDH with regards to this. I have no kids of my own, but I'm a better parent than either of them! I hate feeling this way. I feel like I should call CPS, but on who?

I don't know what to do...HELP!