I've been lurking around here for a while now. I'm a SM, I have been since SS was 5mo old. I married his dad when he was 18 months. His BM HATES ME!!! (we'll call her The Whale) She wants me to die. She has physically attacked me on my property then raced me to the court house to press charges against me. We fought 1 month after our wedding exactly. I confronted her about sending the baby in clothes that fit. She was sending him in WAYYY too small clothes. She smacked me and as a reaction I smacked her back.