Let me just start from the beginning. My husband and I were friends for two years and dated seriously for a year before we got married. During this time he live five hours (out of state) away from his son and the biological mom. He would see his son for about two weeks in the summer, one week at Christmas time, and then about one weekend a month. My hubby and I didn't live together until we were married so during these visitations I was only around during the day and not too often since I worked full time.