ive been married to my husband for almost 3 years, together 4.5. He has 3 kids, by 2 separate moms. 1 is a complete nut case, the other one is just as useless. All the kids live with their moms..the 11 year olds mom is now a lesbian and has a wife. They have always been nice to me, and we seem to get along good. A few months ago her mom called my husband and asked if the 11 year old could come and live with us. My husband and I discussed it and decided it was ok. We were literally in the middle of moving into our new place, and I had hesitation because we weren’t even unpacked yet.