I'm currently struggling at crossroads in trying to figure out if I should stay or should I go in my marriage.   I meet my current week almost 3 years ago who has three kids of her own.  The kids ages are 9, 8, and 6.   When we first met she told me about her middle child and how he has a special form of autism and he's highly ADHD and that in her last marriage her ex-husband was abusive and when he hit the middle child, CPS got involved which subsequently ended her marriage.