If this is better or worst than it was I did sit my husband down and talk to him about co parenting after having to write down what I needed to say because I have issues just talking I always have and probably always will. The hubby is on board with it so I tell the princess to do something if it doesn't happen she gets grounded to her room. Well wensday o believe I had told her to pick up and put up the pumpkin craving toolsand ahe didn't do it so today I reminded her not once but twice to pick them up and she still didn't do it now I had also told both princess and the boy to go to bed.