You are here

bellladonna's Blog

Do you read text messages from Skids/BM?

bellladonna's picture

Submitted by bellladonna on Mon, 08/26/2013 - 12:48pm

Do you listen to voicemail or read Facebook/Twitter/IG posts of BM/Skids? Why or why not?

I'm wondering because I notice on here that a lot of posts start out...."I read a text/heard a voicemail from BM/Skid...." and then the drama ensues.

I stopped reading texts and listening to voicemail from BM a long time ago. I stopped for a couple of reasons.

1. Reading/listening to communication from her ruined my fantasy that she doesn't exist (ha!)

2.Nothing good came out of it. Ever. All it did was make me mad at DH. And caused us to argue.

BM(Not SS6) calls to wish DH a happy birthday

bellladonna's picture

Submitted by bellladonna on Sun, 08/18/2013 - 11:26am

This is crazy. The Gremlin (BM) calls and wishes DH a happy birthday. And then they proceed to talk for 20 mins. He didn't even talk to SS6. When he got off the phone he was all smiles. And now DH is wondering why I'm mad and not talking to him. He told me I'm ruining his bday. Oh well, go celebrate it with the Gremlin.

I'm so pissed I can hardly see straight. UGH!!!!

OT/Read any good books lately?

bellladonna's picture

Submitted by bellladonna on Mon, 08/12/2013 - 10:44am

A lot of people mentioned on ammart1k's blog that they read to escape. I love to read. I read about a book a week. I just finished reading Escape from Camp 14. It was really sad, and heavy. It affected me for days after I finished reading it. I am looking for some good reads. Everything I've been reading lately has been heavy and serious. I'll read just about anything, but I'm not
really into romance novels.

Tuesdays are library days for me and DD3. So I'm looking for something new and different.

What are some of your favorite books?

Is it worth it?

bellladonna's picture

Submitted by bellladonna on Sat, 08/10/2013 - 11:25am

I am just wondering if the stress, the pressure, the depression, the panic attacks, and all the drama is worth it?

We are pretty much all in the same boat. We all say DH is the best thing that ever happened to me, he would be great if it weren't for the skids/BM. But how many of us are depressed, on medication, in counseling?

I take back all the bad things I've ever said about SS6

bellladonna's picture

Submitted by bellladonna on Mon, 07/29/2013 - 4:01pm

SS6 can be annoying AF, but he really saved the day today. I was bitten by a poisonous spider some years ago. It really traumatized me. As a result I have a real fear of spiders and bugs in general. I was cleaning the bathroom and picked a towel off the floor and the biggest spider I have ever seen crawled out. I screamed bloody murder. Trying to get away I slipped on the wet floor. SS6 comes running in and was like, "What's going on, Bellladonna are you ok?" I told him there was a huge spider and he just cracks up laughing. He was like it's ok. I'll get it.

Pages