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beenthere's picture

Submitted by beenthere on Tue, 01/17/2012 - 7:57am

My 50 year old BF is so "guilty daddy" to his D8 that he can't relax ever when I'm around. He thinks I should applaud her every obnoxious statement or sound. So he's saying the other day how they will have to move out if I don't "be accountable to, except responsibility for, and apologize for" all the things I do that make him tense. Yet, when pressed for factual examples of my "overbearing" behavior, he can't come up with anything specific. The one thing he could finally think of was this: We attended an outdoor wedding reception in October, and while his D8 ran around playing, I occasionally looked her way to check up on her. THAT WAS IT! That was overbearing? And he wants me to apologize for being so horrible to his princess? He's giving me a week to absorb, understand, and apologize for all of these unspecified sins. :jawdrop: Don't know what he's doing after that, but I hope the door hits them both on their way out! WTF? Just had to vent.

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Bubbly1's picture

Submitted by Bubbly1 on Tue, 01/17/2012 - 8:09am

OMG! How dare you look at Princess to make sure she's not bleeding on the ground somewhere!!! LMAO! That being said, I'd say tell him, "there's the door, don't let it hit'cha where the good Lord split'cha!" And be done with THAT craziness!

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Tue, 01/17/2012 - 9:13am

I'm going to have to agree with all these ladies.....Don't let the door hit you and your princess on the way out!!! WTF is wrong with him....Screw that!!!!LMAO

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Submitted by beenthere on Tue, 01/17/2012 - 3:00pm

Yeah, then we talked some more today and he complained because I am "organized" and expect rules to be followed. He still says he will have to leave if I don't own up to these "problems" and fix them. I keep telling him the real problem is that he's so busy trying to be king to his D8, that he doesn't really know how to be a BF. His eyes glaze over and he laughs when I say that, so I know he just isn't getting it. I also let it be known he need not threaten to leave because I may be ASKING him to!

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Tue, 01/17/2012 - 3:05pm

Ask away my friend and don't look back. He is not worth it.
Be happy and find someone who knows you are all of that and a bag of chips!!!