I have been dating a 34good year old mother of one for about 10 months, (im 31) i like her alot and her and i get along well, share many commonalities and she claims to be in love with me. My issue is her 9yrand old daughter. While i generally like and at the very least tolerate most children well, this particular little girl is unreachable. She is ungrateful, rude, self centered, lazy,ill-mannered and in my opinion very underdeveloped socially and mentally for her age. I know that her short comings are due to the parenting she has recieved from her mother.