My 10 year old stepdaughter wont stop wearing my 9 year old daughter clothes. This bothers me because the 10 year old will wear them back to her mom house and I will never see them again. This has been an ongoing situation for the last 4 years. It seem all her clothes and my daughters clothes end up and the other house. Then when I ask her mom to send clothes back she says she doesn't have any. I just want to scream...