I've been involved with a man for just over a year (have known him for 18 years) and he has three children. I am a 47 year old woman who chose not to have children of my own.

His children are all under the age of 7, two boys and a girl.  The two boys are unruly and disrespectful. I could give a million examples, but won't bore you with them.  Please trust my judgement when I say they are unruly.