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Submitted by as on Thu, 11/19/2009 - 12:12pm

When it come to my step-kids. Everybody knows from reading past blogs that my dh expects me to watch the kids and give his parents a break on the weekends so he can go hunting. My ss is 8 and my sd is 10. My dh expressed he wanted to get them a go cart for Christmas this year. I let him know I did not want him to get them one. Why he ask, because one, they are not that responsible, two they can get hurt,and three there is no where to ride one unless they ride it in our backyard. Also I expresse I would not allow them to ride the thing unless he was home and out there with them.

Well I've probaly done it now

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Submitted by as on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 9:47am

I finally got up the nerve to tell my dh how I feel about keeping the kids by myself on the weekends while he goes hunting or does what ever he wants, not just on weekends but during the week to. Everybody knows my story the grandparents have gaurdianship of the kids. Any ways, I told him when we first got married when he went hunting I went to, or at least got to go do something with my family while he was gone. Now that were married he leaves, and I get sole kid duty all weekend long. Well I complained about it today.

SCARED ABOUT SKS MOVING IN

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Submitted by as on Tue, 10/06/2009 - 9:41am

MY dh is wanting to get his kids from his parents. In previous blogs I let everyone know the kids and grandparents situation. I don't think the grandparents will let dh have the kids becuse he is not grown up. He told me today he wanted them back, this terrifes me. Why you ask, becuse Im scared that we will get them and I will be the one that has to deal with everything. His motto is he gets to do what he wants, and to hell with everybody else. I told him today, that untill he gets those words out of his vocabulary his parents won't allow the kids to come live with us. But what if they do?

how do you get your ss and sd to stop back talking and respect me?

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Submitted by as on Mon, 09/28/2009 - 12:48pm

My sd and ss think its ok to come to my husband and my house and not follow the rules. When I get on to them for something I get the word no, and that they don't have to listen to me. Of course dear old dad just sits there and does nothing. He then wonders why Iam so ill when the kids come up to the house. He wants the kids to come to the house, but then he does nothing but sit on his a** and does nothing to help me out. He thinks Iam suppose to entertaing and diciplen the sk's. But when I do have to do the deciplen he gets angry and says Im to ill when the kids come up.

SP kids are driving me Nuts!!!

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Submitted by as on Wed, 09/23/2009 - 10:59am

What do you do when you get on to a SP for something and then she turns around and tells you your being rude and she is going to tell her nanna. Her nanna is the boss becuase that is who the kids live with. I feel like I am stepping on toes when I get on to my Sp daughter and Sp son. The kids are pretty well behaved around the grandparents they live with, but as soon as they get to my husbands and my house they go stir wild. They scream and fight, I have the Sp daughter screaming and crying at me saying I hate her and all this other stuff because I get on to her and her brother.

Keeping kids on Friday night

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Submitted by as on Fri, 09/18/2009 - 1:24pm

I have been marreid for three months. My husband works on friday nights. He goes in at 6:00p.m. and does not get off untill 6:00a.m. He expects me to keep one or both of his two kids every Friday night. My SK's live with his parents. I pick them up from school every day. I help them with thier homework, I take them to the doctor. I singend them up for baseball and softball, and I am the only one that takes them to practice. They have not had a game yet. Being a Sp is new to me. I do not have any kids of my own. Anybody with two children or more doing sports know how tired you can get.