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My 12, almost 13 yr old girl... Bless her heart.

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She has been complaining of "an intermittent up to 8 out of 10" rib pain "thats definitely the ribs"... that goes up and down randomly with no rhyme or reason, from 0, 3/4, 6, even 8...So I really get her to describe the "8" because to me, I am at the doctors and taking pills for an 8 and screaming in the ER at an 8.5 and I take Tylenol at a 6. She says "an 8 is when I want to just lay my head on my desk or might take a Tylenol".

almost 13 child and their stupidness!

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I love my SD12-1/2, but good lord I just want to shake her. She can be so stupid sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I love her to pieces, its just maybe I over-babied her and she is just way too dependent. I know, I was a really STUPID kid Myself, probably rivaling SDs stupid antics if not exceeding her, but that doesn't make me not want to shake my head and say "quit being so stupid!". Blum 3

DH and the online gaming..Continues

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Well, I posted in the end reply to my last blog that we had this great open talk and DH swore to back off the game and he was taking a couple days off of it.

He took the next night off (he got home at 6:30 and in bed by 10, so during that time, I worked until 7:15(from home),then we watched a very slow movie with SD, he mentioned about four times that he was not logged in and not logging in that night.

DH not interested in me

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DH and I had sex twice since I got pregnant, and I am almost in my third trimester. I think he is watching a lot of porn, but it would have to be at 4am when he gets up for work and there is no trace in his history. I get it, I understand it, and while I have major self-image issues, I am not mad or resentful over that right now (had been in the past).

WHY is my SD12 so extremely stupid? Bless her heart...

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I have raised her with DH as "mom" since she was 4. I have preached and reviewed phone rules, internet rules, facebook rules, the dangers of the internet, keep a close tab on her, monitor her history on the computer, limit her use, and she breaks every single phone and computer rule every time. I now take the phone at 9pm because she cannot handle herself not to text until midnight on a school night. She is grounded if it even looks like the history was deleted on the computer.

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So, after "LitterBoxGate2012", my SD12 (whom I am raising and parenting yes) and DH have been on top of the litterboxes and I have not had to ask or repeatedly remind. I have given a reminder about two days in the past two weeks! Today, I noted that it is "changing and washing the box day" not just scooping, and they were on it, SD12 had the boxes outside and washing them and DH had the bags and litter ready to fill them.

Estranged mother demanding/forcing/expecting to be fully FULLY involved in pregnancy/birth/baby

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so my mother, whom I have had a very contentuous, minimal relationship with, has found out I am 22 weeks pregnant through the fact that DH posted it on facebook with the gender reveal and my half-sister (no real relationship beyond facebook friended as we did not grow up together or anythng) told her mom (our mom, I suppose).

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