So, I'm new to this. I am married to a man who is older than I am. I have a 13 yr old son, he has a 12 yr old daughter and 32 year old son with 2 kids. My SD and I usually get along, last year we went on a vacation and she would be really snotty towards me when her Dad was not around. So, when I was short with her, my husband was irritated with me. I explained to him what was going on and it was like he didn't believe me! My SS32 was there with his family and said something to my husband about how his sister, my SD12, was being a brat to him. Now, all of a sudden, it was believable.