My SS is drives me up the wall and today seems worse. I am a full-time college student, with a part time job and a DD2 who has Learning Delays, and then there's the SS7. He refuses to clean up after himself, ya know the little stuff like put your dirty pissed in underwear in the basket instead of next to the basket, wipe the toothpaste off the counter when your done brushing your teeth, wipe up the glass of water you just intentionally poured on my new hardwood floors. He doesn't even clean himself, I tell him to take a shower, he comes out smelling just as bad like ass as he did when he went in there. He's rude and hateful, he comes home and throws his backpack in the floor and runs off to his bedroom to play with his crappy broken toys that I spent money on and he threw them around until broke every single toy he's ever been given.
The things that I ask him to do are not that difficult, it's nothing more than I expect from my 2 year old. She has learning delays and can remember to put her dirty panties in the laundry basket or hamper and not to break her toys and to clean up after herself. Why can't the child who is 7 do those things as well. I don't expect much from him I treat him like a two year old as is because that's how the shithead acts, throwing tantrums in the store because he doesn't get chocolate. Hello, Chocolate is a priveledge in my house given only to those who deserve it and what he deserves is a swift kick in the ass not a candybar. Not to mention that I can't stand him when he's had caffeine of any kind.

Just needed to vent....I feel a tiny bit better now, at least he eats my cooking now without crying and whining and telling me its nasty!!!
I'm trying hard to count the positives in life