Just need some guidance....I've been with my bf for 1 1/2 years.  He's been separated from his wife for two years but they are going thru a rough divorce.  Unfortunately his "wife" doesn't like me and has choosen a road of pure ignorance and disrespect towards me.  Their daugther graduated from HS and the wife is having a grad party at her mother's house.  Initially my bf wasn't attenting but he recently found out that his wife and daughter invited several members from his side of the family to the party and they are attending.  Those family members are advising him that it is the right thi