Hello, I'm new to this forum. I need an outlet and a stranger's opinion, that's an outsider. I have been with my husband for almost 9 yrs and married 4 out of the 9. This is our second marriage, for both of us. I sit here daily and ask myself, if I've done the right thing in getting married a second time around. First, my husband and I , just the two of us, are great! Couldn't have picked a better husband for myself, but he sucks at being a father to both his daughter's and is not a stepfather to my son or daughter. He just can't deal with anything.