I've always thought it was werid to marry some one who already had kids. My mom had me then married my step dad, when my brother was born I always knew I would come last. throu out my life I saw how my parents showed more love and more to my brothers.So this was always a reminder to stay away with guys with kid(s). And as I got older my best friend had a boyfriend who had a little girl not to long she my friend had a kid of his own too. When I would go over, she used to tell me how she hated when the little girl would come over on the weekend.