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Two Glorious Weeks Since SD Moved Out

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Submitted by agitated on Fri, 07/16/2021 - 11:23am

I deleted my blog pertaining to SD18stb19 moving out because it was so easily identifiable. However, it has been the best two weeks ever! My DH has not been visibly upset or acting any different than usual; with the exception of the actual evening she moved out. Well, not even then actually . As she, her great uncle, and grandfather were removing her things from the house, he seemed upset. Even when she started crying when it was time to say goodbye he was pretty emotionless; which is strange for him as he isn't affraid to show emotion. Maybe he was trying to hide it?

Might be the beginning of the end - LONG

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Submitted by agitated on Wed, 09/23/2020 - 12:21pm

I don't post much, but I read regularly. My SD graudated (luckily) in May of this year and turned 18 in August. She was gone for her summer visit with BM on her bday and we weren't sure if she was going to come back to our house or not. My DH and I thought she would choose to live with her mom, or at least stay for quite some time. BUT, on a Saturday night 1 month ago, at 10:34 p.m., DH gets a text that says, "I'm coming home tomorrow." DAMN IT, was my first thought, but I digress. My SD is very unmotivated and lazy.

Love this time of year...

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Submitted by agitated on Fri, 12/20/2019 - 11:15am

bc SD17 gets on a plane before I will even be out of bed tomorrow morning to go spend the holidays with BM, and I won't have to deal with her until January 5th! Christmas is so much more pleasant without her around, as is almost every other day. My DH even opened up last weekend that although he loves her very much, he really hopes she goes to live with her mother this summer after high school. There we have it folks. He f**ked up by not caring enough, doesn't know what to do or how to "fix" it now, and wants her to go.