This morning DH called me from work. He said that SD12 had just called and asked him if her friend could come for the weekend. DH said he told her he'd check and let her know tomorrow. I remember this "friend" from last year. She actually had the nerve to talk back to DH and I on the first day we met. Also, property was destroyed and wether it was SD or her we're not sure.
I said "Absolutely not! She's the little mouthy one that was her when things were broken last year." Dh just said "oh, hummm". I said "I'm not discussing it further, my answer is no."

We haven't talked about it since and I was going to bring it up but really can't seem to find the energy to give a crap. SD has been here 2 nights so far this year and I really have gotten used to not wasting my energy on her bs. I hope DH will say no but if he doesn't I'm not wasting my weekend being upset, chances are SD will change her mind and not even come after all. If she does, I'll take BD2 out for the evening and return SD and her friend to BM on Saturday at lunchtime.

I am curious if he'll go along with my wishes or completely ignore me.