Got married to a man 6 months ago who has been divorced for 11 years. He has 3 boys 18, 16 and 14. BM calls occasionally (and hangs up on me when I answer the phone), but mostly texts DH and sometimes sends emails the size of a novel. I would say she tries to communicate in one of these forms 3 times a week. My DH says the volume of communication from her has increased since we married, but there have been other earlier times that he said email me only if it's an emergency. She ignores his wishes and continues to communicate on a frequent basis.