My 17 year old daughter hates her stepmom. She blames her for breaking up her family. She does not live with us. She is very athletic and participates in sports at her high school. She wants me to attend ber events alone. She says it causes her great anxiety and hurt feelings if my wife attends her stuff. My wife was ok with this for the past year. Now she is saying enough is enough and I'm disrespecting her and our marriage by having her stay away from my daughters school events.