Curious if anyone of you darling people have feedback on this topic.

I just recently started a new job that is awesome. I make great money (almost exactly the same as DH), and the most incredible benefits. I have not only medical, but Dental and Vision and they are known to be good plans in general (Anthem Blue Cross...)

I added DH. He also has employer-paid medical, but not dental or vision.

DH asked me to add Munchkin SD12 because her mother just lost her job that had great benefits (the same as mine) and previously had BOTH children on there with herself.

My partner and I decided on health insurance that was best for our arriving newborn and his two kids with his baby moms.  He did ask her opinion earlier on but then decided to go with what was more affordable and staying in the same network that the baby would be born under.  We chose to do Kaiser for health insurance,  but she wanted UnitedHealthcare since her kids have had it since birth.  My partner made the change and since she has state insurance his insurance will become the primary.  She’s upset.