Seeking advice. I’ve been with my DH for 4 years. I have 4 kids (11, 9, 8 & 5), he has 1 son (10). BM spoils him to the extreme to make sure she is the “favorite.” Buys him whatever he wants, takes expensive trips (DH and I cannot afford this and she knows that), picks up after him, indulges him.. (which he has told me and DH that we need to do for him as well. And he was quickly corrected that no, we do not). BM even sleeps in his bed with him at night (which honestly is a little weird to me).

<p>So I&#39;ve been married to my husband for yrs. He has 2 kids, one he raised and one that is biologically his both by the same woman. There have been so many issues in throughout our dating and marriage that I&#39;m ready to get divorced at least 3 time a month. Most recently his bio daughter came to live with us after she was removed from her mother. It&#39;s been an up hill battle since then. I&#39;ve tried to explain the trauma she has been through to both her and her father in Hope&#39;s that it will begin the healing process.