I posted a couple of years ago here. My stepson is 16 and have been in his life since he was 5. It has been such a struggle because his father is a narcissist, manipulative, and has brainwashed him. He has always wanted to live with his dad full time since before I came into the picture, and as of two years ago changed from 50/50 to living there full time.

Hey everyone, I wanted to ask for advice on how to disengage from my stepson. IHis father and me have been married for 27 yrs and we have 2 daughters together.I believe him to be a narcissist. He lies to me and about me. He paints me as a very mean person. The problem is the grandkids. The last straw came when he sent me a text asking what I was doing (out of the blue). I texted him that we were at a friend’s birthday party. He suddenly turned ugly and accused me of never taking him to dr or dentist- which was a blatant lie. He was drunk texting so I didn’t respond.