Hello, I'm 29 and have been a stepmother since I was 20 to a boy and a girl.  My stepson is 14 and over the last year or so has changed dramatically.  It has not been an easy journey and over time I want to dicuss and share stories with others who understand.  The issue I'm going to bring up today is CLOTHING.

My boyfriend and I have a near perfect relationship. We love each other very much and want to spend the rest of our lives together. We have never even had an argument with each other. The problem is when we get together with the kids. It's total chaos, and I find myself being extremely overwhelmed.