Just thought I would tell this one for some input because I don't even know what to say at this point! We are out to breakfast & the waitress asks if we want coffee ...yes. Then looks at sd14 & says u? No? She says I'll have coffee. The waitress looks at me shakes her head & says "bad mom"! To which I reply "I'm not her mom"....wow now I'm in trouble for being rude & I should apologize....huh? For stating facts? For not being her mom? What am I apologizing for? We are not married I'm not even a Stepmom (although she does call me that)...whatever she has a perfectly shitty mom that hasn't seen here for years...but I am not her & will never be her mom!! wow really!