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So I recently found out SD13 has been manipulating DH and I to get what she wants along with lying. I also discovered she was talking crap and making fun of me. I thought she was the good kid and that she genuinely loved me. Silly me. So all those fancy clothes she manipulated me into buying for her, they went to Goodwill today and were replaced with no name basics. Maybe those kids actually deserve them. I know it seems petty but I just don't think she deserves anything from me anymore.

I agree! Consequences are the

I agree! Consequences are the only way to go.
I personally despise lying, manipulating kids. If no action is taken, it becomes a way of life.

I feel for you so much, my

I feel for you so much, my sds are exactly the same. They talk behind my back, have said they hope me an my kids die the whole bit. Mind you only cause they are jealous that hubby me an my kids are close an they havent been in his life much due to bio. They have lived with us an then went back to bio an told her lies hurtful lies even after everything i had done for them to try an break me an hubby up. Then they expect me to forgive an forget LOL never going to happen. Have told hubby they are never welcome in my home again an thats that. Still have the youngest but she is turning out exactly the same so only s matter of time their. I really dont get why us step mums get treated the way we do. My hubby does nothing for these kids, i cook, clean, drive around, comfort everything but still im the bad one so im over the bullshit. They dont deserve my love or time anymore. Karma will come back when they realise they did actually have a great step mum an great step sibblings but they have lost it all. Mind you they only ever call their dad to ask for money or something so they dont care at all. From now on im letting bio deal with their shit. They dont want me as s step mum an thats fine with me im not their mother thank god i have my 3 to out first good luck hopefully you dont go through as much as i did as im s broken woman now

Good for you. I'm glad you

Good for you. I'm glad you found out who she really is, although I know it probably hurt.

When I found out about the lies that SD believed (from BM) I was kind of hurt but I was more upset that she believed the lies about her own father.

It does hurt. We have done so

It does hurt. We have done so much for this child over the years. I don't think I will ever look at her the same way again.

"So all those fancy clothes

"So all those fancy clothes she manipulated me into buying for her, they went to Goodwill today and were replaced with no name basics."

PRICELESS!!!!! I live with a lying manipulator. I do as little for her as possible. I don't like being lied to!

Right??!! I bow to you, OP!

Exactly! I so wish I had a

Exactly! I so wish I had a way to go back and take away every single nice thing I ever did for SheSloth! Over 14 years, that is a whole lot! And for what? For her to treat me like crap? I know she talks crap about me behind my back, and to my face (with DH around, of course) tries to say that I've been more of a mom to her than BM. I'm supposed to seriously fall for that? She won't say two words to me if DH is not around, and does her best to talk around me when he is around. She also makes it very clear on her social media that she would rather be with BM than here...but her stepdad won't let her move back in because of all the crap she was getting into!

Omg my steps say the same

Omg my steps say the same thing oh im a better mum to them then bio, they look to me as their mum blah blah
Means nothing to me now that ive found out what they are really like. They make me feel like a stranger in my own home
And when they are all together OMG they plot against me then one will come tell me what the other just said about me an
Then the other denises it they even do this with hubby. Step mum from hell ive never been but they are making me out to be
And if they want to see evil i can do that }:)

I think every time they come

I think every time they come over now I am going to leave or stay in my room. It's a hopeless cause trying to change them.

Yep! And a little Walmart

Yep! And a little Walmart clearance rack. And not much stuff at all! Thanks Cat, I know I will save a lot of money. I just had this idea in my head that eventually they would love me and we could all be a family together but I know that will never happen. I should just move on with DH and our DD and forget they even exist.

I gotta give you massive

I gotta give you massive props! Oh, how so many of us dream we could do something like that to these monsters! Oh, I can sit here and imagine the look on SheSloth's face if she came home to find all of her stuff replaced with bargain basement crap! Granted...I didn't buy it for her...so I can't touch it! SheSloth will cry to BM that we won't buy her nice things, and BM will get grandma or some friend to take the girl shopping at stores like PacSun, HotTopic, Vans, Hollister, etc., and then SheSloth will come busting through the door with her shopping bags as if to rub it in our faces!

Way to go. I don't think it's

Way to go. I don't think it's petty at all. Why should you do nice things for her when she's so disrespectful to you?

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