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Submitted by hbell0428 on Thu, 11/11/2010 - 9:09am

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So I get home last night after working OT all week; to the ONE night for 4 Hours that BM takes SD13 and start dinner. My BD11 takes EVERYTHING to heart. She says; I got in a fight with SD this morning on the bus about you - I say (of course) why now??? She says because she was saying that she should just poison you so you will go away!!! REALLY - BD says - not to talk about me like that; and then of course SD proceeds to tell her to shut her freakin mouth or else.

OH my god what is the problem here; I don't even bother her; I just do my own thing; it is so ridiculous to live like this; any suggestions????????

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Submitted by pastepmomof3 on Thu, 11/11/2010 - 10:09am

Sounds like time for a family sit down. This conversation needs to be addressed and figure out what SD's problem is, #1, and also find out why she is threatening BD, #2. 13 is a tough age but you just don't say that. Good luck!

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Submitted by hbell0428 on Thu, 11/11/2010 - 10:38am

I wish it was that simple but SD lives with us now!! BM and SF refuse to take her! Because of all this; in fact I just had conversation with her mom to talk about her behavior w/ boys and her attitude and she actually said - Now you know what we went through! :jawdrop:

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 11/11/2010 - 10:42am

I would see if I could get a police officer to come out and talk to her about threats like that. It just might scare the crap out of her.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Thu, 11/11/2010 - 11:52am

OMG…what did your DH say? He needs to stop this now. I would not leave my drink/food or my kid alone with SD either.

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Submitted by T_hesling on Sat, 03/05/2011 - 10:40am

I am so glad I found this place and now I am not alone anymore in the crazy Step parent world anymore!