15 year old step son
My 15 year old step son is driving me crazy!!!!! He moved in with us full time 6 months ago. His mom has only had him over twice in the last 6 months, this weekend she claimed she had the stomach flu and was very sick but she was out partying all weekend and was dumb enough to post it on FB! . Because he was failing all his classes he has been doing online virtual school and since I'm a stay at home mom I'm with him all day everyday! Along with my other 3 boys(my hubby and I have a 7 yr old, 5 yr old and 7 month old) We had a good relationship before he moved in but now that he lives with us he constantly gives me attitude and talks back. My husband and I started having problems because I'm not ok with his son talking back to me. How can I fix this? And what about BM?
Don't do a thing for your SS
Don't do a thing for your SS or DH until they get this back talking taken care of. I mean not a thing!
I try not to do anything for
I try not to do anything for him. I have known him since he was 5 and I don't want to give up on him! His mom already has.
I'm with Patsy! I've taken
I'm with Patsy! I've taken the stance her that as long as I'm treated like crap, I refuse to do anything for the princess.
That's what I'll have to do!
That's what I'll have to do!
I'm a medical biller which
I'm a medical biller which allows me to work from home so I AM financially independent! I thought this site was to vent not to be judged! I'm not looking for some magic potion I was looking for advice from other step moms! My husband respects me and appreciates everything I do! We got my step son too late! He talks back not only to me but to my husband also. I am no ones walking mat and I have self esteem! I am financially independent, and I chose to work from home to be there for my boys!
Sue2 Meh...There are other
Sue2 Meh...There are other things that please a husband ;). When I say don't do anything for DH I mean DONT' DO ANYTHING! Your husband needs you. Your Dh needs to feel loved and when he notices your love is running out then he will correct it. IF not then he isn’t worthy of a loving wife. He has to take care of it and make sure you let him know he has to.