Rant - Psychopath BM
Psychopath.
She cries over everything - down to the point of a list of school supplies in my handwriting because I told DH we should split it and try to help her since she just moved.
She does nothing but play the government system. Her mom has to literally be there for everything since he moved out of the house up until now. Her mom is on SSI so they both have food stamps (Which she hid from DH while they were married and manipulated the system basing everything on only her income without his knowledge) - this was apart of the divorce besides her being lazy and just a crappy wife.
She tried to put on school paper work their names like they are still married - kick in the gut to me but I know shes a psycho.
I don't believe anyone who has no means of support for children but the government and child support should be granted primary custody. It worries me for SS and I hope when he gets older he looks at our house and either wants to stay primarily with DH or at least realizes we work and bust our ass for everything we have and do for him compared to her cheating the system.
I know he probably won't. I
I know he probably won't. I just hope one day he as he grows (he's 4 now) he will see all what his daddy has tried to do for him. I just needed to rant. I can't believe how simply a slit in the pants can grant unfit people custody - mind you my husband works offshore which plays into it some as he is away for 3 weeks at a time but I really believe if you are living off the system and there is a supportive OP who can provide a better life the OP deserves the children so they don't grow up to be slackers like this BM
Lay out an assortment of
Lay out an assortment of drugs they'll come around.
Some kids are just more
Some kids are just more comfortable in the ghetto. Kids truly do not know what is best for them. Most of the time, they don't even know how good they have it...
I will say my SS loves it at
I will say my SS loves it at his daddys. He tells us he gets to do stuff and he loves that though we do make him say yes ma'am and no ma'am he gets to pick out his own stuff and we are more involved than her. Every night he is here him and I feed our pet fish George together and then him, his daddy and I read a night time story which he gets to pick out. She puts him infront of a TV. He also gets to pick out his own school clothes, and gear over here - min you he is 4 but we still try to give him freedom to be him.
I hope one day he sees the life we give him based on the life she gives him but if he doesn't I am happy to still put forth the effort to give that little boy everything he deserves. I just hate that she doesn't try - she lives off HUD housing, gets food stamps and makes about $1400 a month in child support and tries to work the system than bitches that we want to take him to museums and stuff when she says she can't afford it. She can go get a job plenty easy both her kids are in school but she would rather be lazy and honestly as said above I believe unless your child has a disability or something like that and you have no other means of support other than child support or the state you do not deserve custody of your children.