y ex wont aloow new husband in therapy w our child
Is this allowed I was married over the summer, my daughter has issues with the divorce as well as anxiety since birth and I have her in counseling. I asked the therapist if ever needed I could bring my husband in to work on issues seein we are blending family.. not only that but my ex is causing all sorts of problems.. He is telling our 8 year old daughter that my husband is probably using me for sex. he supposedly didn't mean her to hear that since he was talking to himself.. Now he says that my husband is not allowed at any apt counseling or dr of any kind.. I am married to him.. the therapist said since he doesn't want him involved she cant see him with us ever. My ex also said I probably have AIDS from my husband My daughter is going through major trauma. She never heard of sex. he told her its how babies are made.. she wont even allow my husband to hold my hand now. I reassured her nothing is happening and I am okay.. idk how to stop my ex from all this bad talk..
I was wondering about the
I was wondering about the anxiety at birth thing too. But Echo is right, you ex has more rights to your daughter than your current husband. I'm sorry that isn't what you wanted to hear, but it's true. You ex shouldn't be worried about the sex you are or aren't having with your husband, if he continues to bring it up to an 8 year old girl then authorities should be notified, that is mental abuse. The fact that she freaks out if you hold your husbands hand gives me great cause for concern because that is not normal. She may need to see this therapist two to three times per week.
No, your XH can't stop your
No, your XH can't stop your DH from going to therapy sessions with you and your daughter. He can verbalize his desire to forbid your DH from attending Doc appointments but generally he is wasting air and can fuck off.
Just ignore his manipulative, toxic, ignorant ass.