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Is it possible to hate someone that much?

Maya1010's picture

Well I guess it is!

I'm sorry but I just need to vent. Here is a little about my story, I been with my bf (now husband) for 3 years and since day one i cannot stand his daughter! She is a laying stealing little slut! I guess the apple doesn't really fall far from the tree cause her mother is a real time slut! She doesn't word but sleeps with married rich men for money. This kid lives fulltime with us, cause it's mom doesn't have time for it or want it. She was dads princess and dad did was she said . When she would tell her dad in the past that she doesn't like the new gf etc dad would just break up like a little kid and let his 11 year old run his fucking life !

She even told him how ugly and not nice I was to her so he should break up with me. Witch he did! 2 weeks into our relationship. But he couldn't be without me so he came back to me... Everyday this kid ruins my life everything is all about her! When she opens her mouth it's a lie!!! She even takes money from us and we don't even know ... Whenever we ask her what happens the answer is I don't know! She doesn't so a damn thing around the house. I cook clean work part time and I'm doing my bachelors but when I ask her to do something she says well.... But that's not even mine. Bitch what??? I wash your nasty dirty underwear and those aren't mine either!!! All she does is come from school and be on the phone with her friends.. Daddy makes food in the morning like she is 2 we make dinner in the evening she comes eats complains and leaves without even helping ... We have to scold her for her to do something. She is even to lazy to wash herself. Then all she does is lay next to my animals all day like a puppet and teach them horrible things ... She feeds them all day just so everyone follows her and loves her.. So she can say man everyone is following me and loving me.. I fucking hate this kid! I had my second stillbirth in the 24week because of a IC this bitch caused me so much stress cause she would cry everyday and tell daddy why he doesn't love her anymore and how she doesn't want the baby... Up until I lost it... I came back from the hospital and saw her laughing about it ... She said oh well no baby for u !!! I was gonna slap her but no ! I never do that I always keep quite and try to understand why this kid is such a monster! All I wish for is that she will go to her moms and never come back! I'm sorry I'm sure all of u think I'm crazy but I cannot see her anymore all I do is sit here and not say a thing.. My husband doesn't understand cause it's his child and of course he loves her so much that he buys her everything and her child funds for the future are well filled. She is 11 y old and all she thinks of is make up stealing and laying . She is the worst in her class and failed a grade already...

Sorry I just had to vent

Anon2009's picture

I'm so sorry for your losses. (((HUGS)))

If you hate this kid so much you need to get counseling to learn how to cope in this situation better. Sounds like sd needs counseling too., and attention (healthy) from dad. And maybe he needs parenting classes.

This situation needs professional intervention ASAP.

Maya1010's picture

Thank you for all your responses I know I should leave .. And I am in counseling since July of 2012 since I first lost my son in the 27 week ... I know it's hard to say that a 11y old is a slut ... But to me it's the best way to describe how she is just like her mother . I talk to my husband openly about my feelings, but he is at a loss about what to do with her. He knows that she is stepping in her moms footsteps and is already with 11 doing criminal things such as stealing from us. I'm a few years she might steal from someone else and then she will have to deal with the outcome. I really tried to hard to make a good life for this kid knowing it a child out of a divorce and she might have issues based of of that... But she treats me like shit. Like a house wife who should do everything for her, and when I say please can I help me clean this, her responds to me is " well I didn't make this mess" I wonder where she gets this from. Her dad only says that she is just like her mom . And even tho he doesn't want her to be with her mom cause she has no future with her he will give her away if it doesn't change .

It's so easy to say leave .... But I can't I love this man so much I can't let her take him away... But I also know if it won't change I can't do this anymore, my health is going bad from all this.

When I see her I see a kid with no heart, she not once cried since I know her !! I always remember that happy smiling face when I got out of the hospital ... She was so happy that I lost my baby again...

To me that is not normal, because I was 11 once too and I understood and had feelings for others

ctnmom's picture

I'm sorry for your loss. That is terrible. To your problem: you are in a romantic triangle with an 11 year old, and she is winning. I don't think there's any counseling that can fix that. And as so many problems on ST, it's your DH , not her.

Maya1010's picture

Thank you guys, I know that the only person that being effected by all this is me. My husband is trying but he doesn't want to see the truth in the eye. He doesn't want to see that she is so young and has major problems that are going to ruin her whole life! I see her a someone that simply doesn't care about anyone but herself. I believe she needs professional help! When I moved in she had a rabbit , one day the rabbit died all of a sudden... After asking her for about 10 hours what has happens to the rabbit ... She said well she wanted to cuddle him , she cuddle him so hard that she broke his spine witch the dog said later! My husband didn't want to see what I say...

I don't know what to do... I can't stand looking at her or seeing her. Everything she does gets on my nerves, because even when she's nice I see how she's laying about everything. We cannot believe a thing she says!

I don't want to loose my husband, I told him a couple days ago... If our baby was alive I wouldn't of had him choose either she goes to her moms and live with her sisters or our kid and me... It sound bad but I bet she would have done something to my babies... Like she did to that rabbit