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SebringLad's picture

I have been reading these posts and wonder how in the hell do people get themselves into these messes,especially repeat stepfamilies,etc.,etc. !!!!
Everyone should know that any parent would favor their own kids so what is so hard to figure out here???
I have relatives on 3rd & 4th marriages with many kids,steps,etc.and can only shake my head !!!

Onefootout's picture

Lol. It's hard to find someone without kids once you reach a certain age. Although I don't think that means we have to get married four times. In the end if there's a fourth marriage, then i think the problem is not with the kids, it's with the adults. They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

I'm giving myself a second chance just because it's hard to find someone without kids. But if this doesn't work out, I'm probably not going to date anyone else with kids. Already I won't date anyone with young kids. Just can't do that again. I need them closer to their move out date. And then there's the whole issue of adult skids who fail to launch. I may be dealing with that and that has the potential to ruin our relationship.

Wheels up!