dh is all confused w/ all our drama n bs going on. dhs family n bm are all odering dh to leave me, painted picture that I hate bm n alleged bs, ss, I have this dark sinister plan to keep ss away forever. I do hate bm, she hates me, no surprises there. I dont hate ss tho, I get annoyed w/ him, havnt accepted him yet but dont hate the kid n im not trying to kerp ss n dh apart. dh is a people pleaser, will say n do anything 4 every1, cant say no 2 any1 ,tells White lies, gets himself in trouble when every1 realizes hes telling every1 something different. with all the crap with bm n ss, should I just let dh go? I admitted was wrong to confront bm bout ss paternity, she confronted me w/ my oldests bs paternity bcuz dh told HER all the details. I know it looks n sounds like a friggen soap opera n I hate it. tried tell him today its just karma biting back all this crap w/ bm, me n her arguing, her making threats, me, confronting her w her skeletons n truth, dh n bm confronted me in beginning of r sh&$@# relationship. dh kept confronting my bs dad tryn control n order bs dad step up start seeing my bs n pay support he wrecked their colse relationship, so did my ex dhs new dw, so did I. dh forced me to take ex dh to court 4 custody n money when I knew I wudnt get a dime he wasnt working. dh kept fightin arguing barkin at me to go to court..i did just to shut dh up I regret it, my bs n his dad no longer r close, no contact. is mine n dhs relationship too $&@# to try n save?? if he wants to break up for his alleged sons sake should I just let him go?