Omg...so after 3 years of complaining and arguing and trying to get FH to see his son for what he really is...I think it finally paid off! Last night I wsa upstairs watching a movie. All of a sudden I hear FH downstairs screaming his head off! I'm like WTF! Well..I knew he was on the phone with SS. I turned the TV down so I could listen (as I live for these moments). All I hear is " Oh and you do nothing to provoke it right? I'm sure. You don't ever ignore her, or backtalk, or defy her? No (to EW)! Shut up! Why don't you get your nose out? Oh really? Good! He's a liar and all you do is defend defend defend! WHy dont you just keep him!? Im tired of the BS!" My heart sank in my chest. I felt horrible that he told her to keep their son but omg was their a big relief too. We will obviously see him weekends and such now but it won't be like before. We had him pretty much 7 months out of the year! The argument was obviously over me. But I didnt care. Its about damn time he stuck up for me! I guess he got tickedoff and yelled because SS had gone and told his BM that I am completely miserable to him for no reason and that I yell all the time and I told him that he wasn't welcome here and all these other lies that my FH knew DAMN well that I would never say to him (I may think them but never out loud). So we will see how all of this crap goes. He actually didn't feel bad about it. He said he felt relief because all the kids doing is causing trouble by lying and being mean and nasty and rotten to everyone. Do you think that it's right for me to not feel bad? Is it right for me and FH to feel relief knowing that the drama is mostly over?