BM hasn't said crap about mothers day... wtf?
Allllllrigggghhtttyyy..
Mothers day is obviously Sunday and good ol' mom of the year still hasn't requested time with the ss's 12 & 14.. ugh..
I want them out of my hair that day..
I know that sounds selfish, but it's mothers day and well, they don't like me and this day is all about showing mom appreciation.. which they know nothing about. "I'm not their mom" (their words exactly) - fair enough, so go spend the day with your mom then..
Oh, but wait.. so far she doesn't want to see them on mother's day...
On one hand I think DH should send ol' mommykins a text reminding her of what sunday is..
However, on the other hand, since she is such a wenchbag that has tried to do so much damage to our family, I feel "screw it, let the skids be pissed that their own mother doesn't want to see them on mothers day..." She really isn't a mother and is abandoning them in less than a month to go live in another state, so I guess she is just being the piece of crap we all know she is... She doesn't deserve a mothers day, in my opinion..
But... I want the day to do what I want to do with people that consider me a mom - my daughter and DH (who is kinda in the doghouse still for unrelated offenses)...
Thoughts on how to proceed, please?
Yes, she has done this
Yes, she has done this before.. almost 3 years ago she bailed on them and handed them over to Dh and I.. because her new hubby and her got married.
Then she came back up here with hubby and resumed 50/50 shared parenting .. it worked ok..
Now.. she is moving an hour and a half away for no reason other than "they liked a house".. not for a better job/job transfer, not because of family.. just because.. I don't get it.. why would you put your kids through this without a reason other than you want to?
Then, to make matters worse - she hasn't once brought up spending any time with them tomorrow.. again, I don't get it. Oh well, guess I'll be taking care of them tomorrow since she can't be bothered to.
She didn't even CALL them..
She didn't even CALL them.. wow.
I am just shocked and appalled that she wouldn't make the effort to see them.. I don't get it.
She lives one street over from us - in fact, we can actually see her house when we exit our subdivision and she was HOME yesterday!!
What the hell? We took the kids out for a fun afternoon, but I could tell the skids were hurting.. it's just sad.
speaking as a BM who kids are
speaking as a BM who kids are were with their father this mothers day ....to me mothers day is just another day. i love my bio children more then anything but if mothers day lands on the weekend they are with their father so be it they call me and swing by with a little gift but then they go back to their dads house till monday...call it selfish but i rather do nothing on mothers day. if my kids were with me that weekend chances are they would just be doing same thing they do every weekend. hang out with friend/play games ect. i never been one to revolve an entire day around me so i for one as a BM am ok with my kids staying at their father house that weekend. this is same on fathers day too, that day alwasy seems to land on my weekends with the kids and really its no big deal they call their dad run him a gift and come home.
now if we are having mothers day cook out or fathers day cookout then the kids will go for a couple hours but alwasy return to the house they had the weekend visitation with.