My BF daughter is getting so jealous of me, I have no idea what to do.

Had a rough weekend, starting off on Friday night when I showed up at BF's house to cook dinner. He's no where around, but SD12 is in the kitchen. I said hi to her, but basically she was ignoring me. I even asked her about her haircut and got back and attitude reply of "uh, ye-ah!" Ok, fine. Asked her if she would take the garbage out since it was full and I was going to start cooking dinner. She said yes, then went to her room! I took the garbage out myself, came back in around the time my BF was coming into the kitchen. He comes over to me to give me a hug and a kiss. SD12 is right behind him and as soon as I turned away from him was asking, "Can't I have a hug?" in a whiny voice. Seriously?! This kid just didn't want anything to do with me, but now that daddy is in the room?!

I called her on her BS. Told her no, because i saw her first and she didn't want anything to do with me. That i had tried to talk to her about her hair and she didn't want anything to do with me. Asked her to take out the garbage and she completely ignored me. Told her I didn't know what I had done to hurt her, but she was being very hurtful.

BF hears all of this and asks for the whole story when she leaves. Tells me not to let it get to me. Nope, sorry, she hurt me, I'm not going to act like everything is fine. He goes and "talks" to SD12 about her behavior and how she's supposed to do the things that I ask her to. Then comes back out to tell me he did it. She comes out a bit later and hugs me from behind. Of course, he's in the room still. Draws me a picture as well, gives it to me in front of him. He tells me it's her way of making amends. Whatever.

The next day I had told him he really needed to start taking her out on father/daughter dates. Spend quality time with each other. She has a blast, tells him that they should do it more often. He even told her it was my idea.

So Sunday comes along, BF and I have had yet another "discussion" about his divorce. He's been legally separated for 4 years. We have now been together 1 year and NOTHING has moved in his divorce. All he does is bug his wife about getting the attorney to file. Doesn't file himself though! I digress... I told him his daughter was difficult and he needed to recognize that. That she was only acting nice to me when he was around. He told me that when he talked to her about me, she feels that I try to manipulate his time with her and that I'm hard on her. About what I ask. He doesn't know. Yet he knows his child lies and that she will bring up something i was hard on her about from 9 months ago, but hey, let's bring it to my GF because my kid is obviously right.

I was upset by this and we were working in the yard, accidentally hit myself in the head causing a two inch gash. (long story about how I actually got it) Anyways, I did it right in front of SD12, who doesn't tell her dad that i'm dripping blood! He finally saw it on the ground and came running. Insisted that I needed to go to the ER. He runs back out, tells SD12 to help him get things picked up so he can take me to the ER. She goes in the house and gets a drink of water, then goes outside. He was pissed! Told her she was the most selfish person he knew. She then used waterworks on me, saying it was her fault that I was hurt. I fell for it, because I didn't know what had happened and tell him to tell her it's not her fault. Which is when I find out about her selfishness. Off to the ER we go, I get checked in, BF goes to pick up some water. SD12 tells me how bad her head is hurting. Wow, really? Mine feels awesome. BF comes back, she tells him the same thing and he tells her to drink some water. Next thing, she's trying to get him to come sit next to her instead of me. I'm bleeding here!

I didn't want him to leave her in the waiting room, so i let her come back into the room with me. As they are washing out the wound, he holds my hand, because it's hurting. She had to move up next to him and hold his other hand. I just don't know if I can deal with this. She is a selfish child and that's partly his fault! He "talks" to her instead of punishing when she isn't nice to me.

I just can't say I'm feeling very positive about our relationship right now...