DH is taking SD to Disney and his mother is going with him as well. I am not going by choice. I'd rather puke than spend a whole week with his mother, and SD and just be annoyed the entire time. They leave on Saturday. So last night I told DH that I changed a shift at work on Friday, so we could get some time together and spend an evening together before he leaves for a week. His response made me sick. "but she has a soccer game Friday.....". Are you kidding me?? He is gonna have her for the entire week! Why can he not just say "oh ok, that's great! Thanks for switching shifts so we can spend time together! Sounds nice!". Why? It's like the idea of missing a one hour soccer game is an obscene request, given that he is taking her to Disney for a week!!

I am so sick of feeling like a third party, and always having to give in and say ok, and never get any alone time with DH. He literally spends every single day off of work with SD. Literally. I'm not exaggerating. Even if I'm off on the same day he is, he still goes to have his visit. When I say he goes, I mean he drives over to BMs house and picks up the kid, and then spends the day at his mothers. He leaves at 6:30 am and comes home after 8:30 pm. Gone all damn day. Sickening. I feel like his roommate sometimes.

End rant. Thoughts?