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Sneeky SD's and photo of BM!! ** VENT***

iloveit's picture

So last night while I was looking for the tape measure in my SO's office, I came across a box of pictures. Normally I wouldn't look in something like that because it's usually just pics of SO's ugly kids and I'm all set with looking at what a happy family they all were before me. Anyway, there was a large picture in the box and the frame was sticking out so curiousity got the better of me and I looked. Well it just so happened to be a picture of BM in her 20's during her "modeling" days. It might not have bothered me so much if it was just a little photograph but this was at least a 5x7 if not bigger and in a damn FRAME!!!!!!!! So I put it back and figured I would casually mention it to my SO to see what he had to say about it. I have to clarify also that I was not snooping in there and also have some boxes in that room so I have a right to be in there. I would also like to mention that I am very big on privacy. I will never check someone's phone or email or facebook etc..I just don't care for that and SO is the same way. So when he came home I asked him about it and he didn't seem to know which picture I was referring to. So I reminded him and he said...when I left my house I grabbed a box that happened to have photo albums etc in it so it could have been at that point it was in there, I did not take it on purpose. Also, he said that his kids brought him over a couple of boxes of things for him. So then I thought....those SD's put a picture of their mother in there on purpose! All of a sudden the light went off and I said, "I think it's ridiculous that they put a picture of their mother in there knowing full well you would see it and I would see it." I told him SD's are never going to get over it and found it rather odd that after more than a year they still plot to get mom and dad back together. They are 20 and 23...still act 7 and 10. Get a hobby SD's! I hate them. HATE.

Jsmom's picture

If it was me and I liked the frame, I would use it and make sure they know that they are welcome to the picture, but you really liked the frame. This may seem catty to them, but, I am a bitch about anything regarding BM. You could mail them the pic and thank them for the frame.

iloveit's picture

Oh I am SUCH a bitch with anything about her too! She's made my life hell for the last 1.5 years and I want her to be shipped out of the country and out of my life for good. She's manipulative and crazy and has no life of her own. All she wants to do is torture her ex husband cause she's bitter and angry at him because he left her. It's not my fault she's lazy and fat and FRIZZY. All things she might want to work on if she wants to be with someone. Although knowing her, she'll have to resort to hitting some poor sap over the head with a frying pan. I also love that I am 20 years younger than her! Next time she comes by the place to stalk me out I plan to put on my shortest short shorts and a tank top and prance around in front of her car.

StillSearching's picture

HA reuse the frame! That is a great idea! I am having evil thoughts running through my head...muahhhhh

iloveit's picture

Hahaha, Foxie...they would be like :jawdrop: . Love it!! SO said he didn't need any pictures of her and it was uneccesary to keep them in the house so he just threw it in the trash! He was actually really sweet about it but what's so irritating is when I asked why they would slip in a pic of their once pretty mother he was like...oh I don't know, I didn't ask them. I had to bite my tongue cause I shook my head and said wow they just will not give it up will they. I feel sorry for him for having such terrible daughters. I would be so ashamed. But then again...my kids would NOT act that way!

Shannon61's picture

Sounds like something my petty and triffling SD would have pulled. I agree w/Foxie. Keep the frame and send the picture back. Don't allow them to think they got a rise out of you. They won't know whow to react and you'll get the last laugh.

iloveit's picture

Hahahahahahahaa omg }:)

I do seriously think this about her...last week when there was a post about writing a personal ad I had a field day with her Queen Frizzers!

iloveit's picture

It's kind of sad, don't you think maux? I can't imagine exerting so much effort into confirmation that my SM hates me and I hate her. If there was a job where these young women were paid to torture their sm's they would be loaded and they would also be in high demand since they are so great at it.

Imagine that the first thought when you wake up in the morning is...my parents are not together and it's been a couple years...what should I do today to make sure SM knows what an asshole she is for breaking up my parents' perfect dysfunctional marriage??? Oh I know! How bout I call dad up and tell him that unless he takes me out to breakfast every week and dinner twice a week with a marathon shopping spree on Saturdays that he is a terrible father and person! Excellent idea!

happymostly's picture

Wow im around the same age as your sds and cant imagine actin like that! I love mustangs comment though!

StillSearching's picture

Yeah me too, I am in my mid-twenties and hearing about the SDs my age makes me feel like I got put into a time warp.

iloveit's picture

Hahaha witchofthenorth...I like that! It's really funny! SD's don't stay over...one of them has never even been to the apartment! I have not met either one of them but if there was a way to get to them...I would do it! I do enjoy the idea of taking out her picture and sending them one with me and SO though Smile He would freak out though, heaven forbid I upset his precious adult babies!