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married stepkids ,practically spend all time with stepmom

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Submitted by jkl141gp on Mon, 04/07/2014 - 5:29am

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Adult Stepchildren

hi

i have 2 stekids girl and boy.
both are married and have a kid each.
problem i have is that girl practically spends every weekend by us with her husband
and my wife gets on better with them then woth me.
i cannot take this any longer , why the hell do they call it husband and wife.
and my wife see nothing wrong with this

anybody experiance this
i dont miond them coming, but every weekend and always to eat or just leave the kid so they can go out

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Submitted by Merry on Thu, 04/10/2014 - 10:15am

I'd lose my mind if either my stepkids or my own kids spent every weekend with me. Sounds WAY excessive.

Can you plan a weekend away with just your wife?

You need to set some boundaries as to what you can/can't tolerate in your home. If your wife needs to spend so much time with her kids/grandkids, she might need to find a place outside of your home. Would that help?