no not like the old tv show.

as in married to his children. we know this happens when a spouse is more involved with his child than his wife. this always happens with the dh. the realities of life are in our marriage. bills, income, job worries, aging and dying parents. the dh is constantly complaining about life in general and finding fault with me. the adult sds pose no pressures on the dh at all. when he leaves the house to go to dinner with the sds its like he is going out to meet a mistress. he picks a fight wi me says i don't care about him anymore and then leaves so he can feel better about meeting with them.

these two youg women live on their own and still have their hands out. their mother wont give them any money at all. in short the mother left their father for another man while he was away in the military. the sds were still in nappies. the mother had an affair with a married man and he also left his wife. the pair married. almost twenty years later the new husband left to find another woman. what a shame.

any stories about the other woman or women in the life of your husband? i know that these mistresses can be of the same sex. men can be too involved with their sons and women can be too involved with the daughters.