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dbk519's picture

Submitted by dbk519 on Wed, 06/29/2011 - 12:29pm

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Well, DH and I talked after the fiasco of the E-mail (see I am in trouble again) and decided that we just would not have SS over for a while. Well -- DH thought SS would NEVER want to come over anyway... Guess who called me today? "Uh, I have some stuff of MY DAD'S in my car. Can I come over during my lunch to drop it off." Me: "Well, I'd rather you call your Dad and arrange to meet him." What will happen next???? Blum 3

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Submitted by cpreston on Wed, 06/29/2011 - 12:37pm

I agree you did the right thing. let him deal with the situation, don't even allow the possibility of a "situation" to arise

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Submitted by twopines on Wed, 06/29/2011 - 12:58pm

I definitely think you did the right thing. His delicate flower feefees might get hurt if he thinks you opened the door wrong for him!!

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Submitted by qtpie013178 on Wed, 06/29/2011 - 6:19pm

Yep, let your husband deal with SS. He only calls if he wants something, let your husband see it for himself.

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Submitted by dbk519 on Wed, 06/29/2011 - 9:06pm

DH came home saying he was going to SS's home to get his stuff and was going to spend the night... OMG... I stayed calm and we talked about OUR relationship.... to make a long story short things worked out well... DH is letting his son hang by himself tonight....