Not up on short forms used here yet.I tried to post 2 times when H came into the room.He can see over my shoulder, then I have to start over.I'll try to be brief.His D has this need to protect her daddy.Married 16 mths..nothing but heartache.Last straw last Sat when she tried to haev be put out of my house ( daddy bought it after we married for us my name not on deed)when H and I have an argument he tells his D.. he gives me the silent treatment and so I send him an email telling him how I feel, nothing threatning, incriminating, but personal.He gets his D to print it, send it to his friends.I found the letter in his coat pocket.All hell breaks loose..his D comes here and spends 3 hours in his "mancave" giving him advice..texts my sons,tells them there is a problem.Oldest son calls me and is worried about me.I go outside and ask him why he has to involve my kids( I have 4, 3 sons live an hour away) my dotter lives up the st as does his D..she sends her 19 yr old dotter to get my dotter for help)She then starts screaming at me calling me phycho bitch, I need help, she put her face 2 inches from my face, pushes me and he says nothing.I said" I think you need to leave" she goes ballistic" don't you ever tell me to leave my fathers house you FN bitch' I said" I've had it and say I'm calling police..she screams "Bring it on bitch" tries to get in our house, before me so I shut the door and lock it, dial police and at the same time she on her cell calling police to have me taken away.My dotter comes down and I let her in.Cops come , one outside to talk to H an dhis D and one in the house.Cops goes outside and she's still screaming becaseu he tells her hse should leave this is the matrimonial home.."you've got to be kidding, my dad bought this house"..cop comes back in the house and says" it is not hard to tell she is controlling adn has a prolem, gives me a number for Victims rights and tells me she knows now this is our house and will be leaving.Also tells H to leave for awhile and come back when he's cooled off..althought he says nothing...He tells my dottter he doesn't want me her, so my D says best fork over some money for my mum.His D freaks again..right in my D face and she tells her to back off.anyway..he comes back later and tells me he doesn't want me to leave when I say I'm going to a shelter.I've been ok..trying to see if he's sorry..nope, he still thinks it's ok what his little girl did..last night , she had the nerve to knock at our door .I open it thinking its a neighbour..she comes right in, says Hello ( my name) and I just ignore her and go to our bedroom.She brings daddy food, enough for one person..thinks she can just walk back into my life and start her shit again.After and our of listening to her obnoxiuos loud voice, she leaves, he asks me" are you upset that (she ) came by" I say , yes I can't believe she came here and thinks I am should forgive her for what she did" so he comes up with"so now my kids aren't allowed to come here" ( he always twists things to suit himself) "that is NOT what I said" adn go to bed..I am making palns, but afrid to leave that she will come and take over, go through my stuff and cause me more heartache..I can't trust my own husband who is brainwashed by his adult daughter..advice more then welcome..I am recovering fr0m cancer and can't take the stress ( we couldn't even haave Christmas together because of her.I went to my D he went to his..