Fed up of my partner's daughter using my address...
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I reluctantly allowed my partner's daughter to use my adrees for correspondence. More fool me. She has run up DEBTS and the letters are coming to home.
My partner knows I am fuming!!!!!
I intend to speak to speak to her about this issue in front of her father...
I explained the situation to him and he agreed. I do not want bailiffs to intimidate me in my own home over HER debts when her BRAT, her worthless brother and she all HATE me and I HATE THEM..
Once I speak to her she get
Once I speak to her she get her post redirected to where she actually lives........
Tell your partners daughter
Tell your partners daughter to get a P.O. Box.
Sorry I accidentally flagged
Sorry I accidentally flagged a violation. Pressed wrong button sorry.
Great advice...
Thank you
This is my first blog and I don't want my partner to see what I am typing......no violation has occurred at all
Get a not at this address and return to sender stamp.
If she gets collection calls at your house... give them her actual address.
This crap pisses me off and I do what I can to get the collectors the information they need to do their job.... and torture the morons who won't pay their bills.
The last house we purchased was nearly new and had been used as a rental for about 6mos before we bought it. Once we closed and moved in the collection mail from bill collectors and attorneys started arriving and our answering maching would blow up from the collection calls.
The prior residents were expecting delivery of some packages and had left their telephone and new address information... I actaully left that information as part of my answering machine greeting ... "If this is a collection call for XYZ they can be reached at the following number and address...."
The former residents were livid with me as I also stamped their delivery packages for return. Fortunately the house is in a gated community and I was able to get their gate card turned off... which pissed em off even more.
Thanks Rags. Your advice is
Thanks Rags. Your advice is good as always.
Good advice
My SD did exactly the same thing; used our address and phone number for her bills so when she didn't pay them, the collectors called here. Unfortunately, our first names are very similar so when the collectors first started calling, I thought they were asking for me but I soon realized what SD had done. So, I gave them her name, cell number, work number, temporary address (she moved around alot) and permanent address to her grandparents and THEIR number too so the collectors could harass them. After DH's parents got stuck in the middle, then things got straightened out, I assume. I don't know if they paid off all Sd's bills but the calls stopped here.
Stop by the post office
Stop by the post office tomorrow and fill out a forwarding address form for all of her mail, including junk mail.
Thanks for the advice Sammi.
Thanks for the advice Sammi. I hope your husband is recovering from his recent illness.
This happened with my husband
This happened with my husband's youngest daughter after she ran away. The bills, collection notices, and junk mail piled up and multiple collection agents called daily, but my DH wouldn't do anything about it. I finally got fed up and started giving the agents the phone number and address of the guy she shacked up with. I suggest you do the same.
Thank you for your response.
Thank you for your response.
Both SS and DD had bill
Both SS and DD had bill collectors after them for a time. Both were off the deep end, and as much as I loved them I was not going to cover for them. I had NO problem giving out their actual phone numbers and addresses. If you don't have a real address for her, you can take the mail to the postoffice with instructions to return to sender.
Thanks for the response.
Thanks for the response.
Oldfool... I hear you... just freaking irritating!
My SS(22)'s debt mail continues to come to my home. It irritates me to no end. And, because my credit is related to my DH's credit and his credit is related to his kid's credit and his kid's credit is related to BM's credit now that crazy illegally-collecting-food-stamps's creditors are coming to my home as well (despite the fact that the woman has never even lived in our STATE!)
It makes my blood boil every time I go to the mailbox.
Thanks for your response.
Thanks for your response.
credit check
Tell her you are going to run a credit check on her name and your address to see exactly what debt of hers is registered at your address. That's the only way you can see what debt she has at your address.
Her debt won't affect yours as in here in the UK the debt is the named person and not the address.
Thanks for your response.
Thanks for your response. ANOTHER letter came for yes2day. I gave it to my partner to give her. I WILL SPEAK TO HER AGAIN AND THEN RETURN ALL POST TO SENDER...
I WILL look up how to do a credit check.....