So as you can see from the subject i have a very disrespectful 21 year old sd. She likes to party and hang out with her "daddy" and says she can only do this if he comes to the bar with her. Well this was the case and he did and he was spending A TON OF MONEY on her and her friends, letting her drive our truck to her other friends house just so she would not keep calling and leaving nasty messages about how he was never in her life when she was younger (thanks to bm)... Well i finally put my foot down and said no more. She can come visit like my children do and we can all hang out like we have been for years on Sunday afternoon with cookouts and dinner and such. She does not like this arrangement at all. She called to tell me that he "told" her he does not like me and wants to be single, he does not like my children and wants to be away from all of us.. I asked him about this and he said this is her speaking not him. He stated he never said any of that and he will let her know.... She sent me a long list of messages that can't be put on here due to the nasty language and content of them. he will not stand up to her, she continues to bash myself, her father and my children on Facebook to the point that i deleted her and so did her father. She continues to call and leave nasty messages saying she "got something for all of us". She informed my oldest daughter that this is all my fault and she no longer has a dad because of me.. HELP!!